Midterms are barely on the horizon, but for various reasons many college students are buckling under the pressure and stress of hectic social lives, classes, work, family issues, etc. I am, my roommates are, my friends are — we’re all feeling it.
If you’re one of these people: YOU ARE NOT ALONE….
TUMBLR HIATUS FOR SCHOOL BYE
being able to say ‘no homo’ is honestly actually a really important part of negotiating social situations for me
like i’m gay + all my friends are gay and i’m v affectionate w my friends but there’sa tension between those bc i don’t want people to think that i’m hitting on them when i’m not…
so yeah i say no homo a lot and it’s a joke thing but also i literally mean that i’m not trying to be seductive bc i’m really not
i once said “i’m so fascinated by the potential of the contemporary no homo” and i remember this bc my friend won’t fuckin let me forget i said it which is fair enough tbh
but also it really is rly interesting in relation to the historical construction of sexuality and male homosocialism and male affection and even tho god whiny shitty men going “no homo” bc of their obvious homophobia is fucking ridiculous it’s stil something i rly wanna look into